J-
At the beginning of April we were all up at the church setting up for
our annual FM breakfast. Some of us brought our girls and for some
reason both of our daughters were having a rough night. We were both
getting frustrated and apologizing to each other for the way each of
ours were acting, and trying desperately to get them to respond the way
we felt was right. Right before we were getting ready to leave, you
called me out in the hallway to share something with me that
was going on inside of you. You told me that God was impressing on your
heart that our daughters are just people like us, in need of
unconditional love, and that sometimes their sass was just a cry for a
personal touch... from God.... from us. You set forth the challenge:
every time we feel like our girls weren't acting right, instead of
getting upset, hug them... love them. I did that- the change was
amazing. You were right... sometimes they just need love. I just want
you to know that I have been doing that with Z even more lately. I'm not
sure if she is the one in need of love...or if it's me... but it brings
healing. I have been doing the same with K... randomly giving her hugs
when I can tell she is having a rough day... the hugs might not be as
good as yours were, but they are with unconditional love. Thank you for
changing my perspective. Thank you for changing my life.
-L
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